Two difficult things

Column:Selected beautiful articles Time:2024-05-17
There are two difficult things in the world: one is to put money from others' pockets into one's own pocket. The second is to put one's own opinions and thoughts into others' minds! We lack money

There are two difficult things in the world: one is to put money from others' pockets into one's own pocket. The second is to put one's own opinions and thoughts into others' minds! We lack money, but what we actually lack is the concept of keeping up with the times. The stubbornness, rigidity, and adherence to conventions in thinking are the root causes of poverty. Any truth is subject to change, and any advantage is temporary. We do not lack wealth around us, but rather the vision to discover it! The change of ideas does not change the things themselves, only the understanding of things, but ideas can change people, and people can change reality.


The important things in being a person are character, quality, and ideological concepts- Children's poverty is the fault of parents. During their growth process, parents did not give them the correct values and outlook on life. The way parents think and educate their children is the starting line of their lives! What beliefs parents have, children will have their own ideas and concepts. Parents sow an action, children gain a habit; Parents instill a habit, children gain a personality; Parents leave behind a certain personality, while children reap a certain destiny. Parents' thoughts, language, and actions influence their children's personality, thinking, and habits.


Personality can affect one's life! Bad habits are not suppressed, corrected, and can change the course of life at any time. People often find it difficult to change their habits, and long-term habits constrain and hinder their own development space! To constantly update one's own ideas and abandon old ones! Correct beliefs determine thinking, forward thinking determines mentality, and a good mentality determines action. Only by changing our mindset and daring to fight against fate! If things cannot be changed, then change yourself; If you can't persuade others, then try to persuade yourself. If we can't cross the mountain, then we'll go around! Overcoming and changing fate rely on perseverance, and the winner is often not their ability but their concept!


You can go as far as your thoughts go- What blocks your progress is not the mountains and the sea, but often a small grain of sand on the sole of your own shoe! When you hold onto something and never let go, perhaps you will only have that thing forever. If you are willing to let go, you will have other opportunities to choose. Old ideas never give up, new ideas are difficult to generate! There is a dilemma in this world: one is to change others, and the other is to change oneself. Asking others to be painful, changing oneself should be joyful. To change others, first change yourself! To change your future destiny, first change your current mindset! In familiar habits, familiar routes, and familiar days, miracles will never happen. Change your mindset, habits, and lifestyle! But we must also give up our past ignorance, ignorance, and prejudice!


The size of our hearts determines the breadth of the stage in life! Only unexpected, nothing impossible! Change everything that can be changed, adapt to everything that cannot be changed! Just because you haven't found your way doesn't mean there's no way out. If you want to achieve something in the future, you must give up on something right now! The mistakes and setbacks in today's life and work should be understood as temporary, and dark clouds can never hide the brilliance of the faint sun! When fate throws a person into a low point, it is often a good period for life's turning point. Be down-to-earth and take one step at a time to do your own thing well.


There is always a way to do it, there is always a reason not to do it! Success is the manifestation of strengths, while failure is the accumulation of weaknesses. For things in life, enjoy them if you like them, avoid them if you don't like them, change them if you can't avoid them, and understand them if you can't. It's your opinion that others can't understand. Don't blame them, time will help them understand, and let the results prove it. Unable to change reality, able to change our mindset; Unable to change things, able to change our mentality; Unable to change others' opinions, able to change one's own thoughts! We cannot change the wind direction, we can adjust the sails; We cannot control the weather, we can adjust our mood. To see things develop and change, one must first change oneself. Only through self change can one change reality. The enemy of Renmin University is not others, but oneself. Only by defeating oneself can we overcome difficulties!