In the August novel "Hello, Old Times" written by Chang'an, there is a line that goes: "The happiest life is someone else's life

In most people's perception, it is true that others' lives seem to be better than their own, so they always appreciate others, criticize themselves, and strive to trim themselves into the appearance that others like. Gradually forgetting the life one should have, habitually standing in one's own world and looking up to the happiness of others, constantly comparing and forcing oneself to catch up, the result is that life is exhausted. Bai Yansong said, "When people pursue not happiness, but being happier than others, happiness will be far away from us

Yeah, how can a person see their own happiness if they always set their sights on someone else's world. Life, once burdened with comparative burdens, will worry about being caught up by others and emotions such as worry and fear will follow after just a short pause.

Sometimes, I really want to stop and rest, but there are too many burdens and I don't know how to place them. In the end, I can only carry my tired body and mind and move forward hard. There are many people who, because they are too comparing how others are doing and how they are doing, carry a lot of unnecessary burden on their hearts, thus missing out on the simple beauty of life.

You should know that everyone's life in this world is different, with their own difficulties and strengths. Sometimes, comparison doesn't bring much surprise to our lives, but rather more troubles and hurt.

Life is like drinking water, one knows its warmth and coldness.

There is no need to compare yourself with others, let alone stand in your own troubles and look up to others' happiness. The most important thing in life is to live your life well and become the person you want to be. Don't envy others. Sometimes, what you think you don't have may be on your way, but what you have may not be possessed by others. Bian Zhilin said, "You stand on the bridge and enjoy the scenery, while the people watching from upstairs are watching you

When we appreciate others, we often don't know that we have also become a scenery in their eyes.

Many times, when we envy others for the smoothness of their journey, they may envy us for the colorful scenery along the way. When we envy others for their idle time, they may envy us for being busy and fulfilling. When we envy the freedom of being single, others may envy the company of our loved ones. There are various aspects of life, each with its own strengths. It's not about who lives well or poorly, it's just about experiencing different things. So, in life, there's no need to compare yourself to anyone else. You should continue to strive for what you are, not for anything else, but for your unique self.

In the vast world, everyone has their own characteristics and personality. Blindly imitating others, no matter how well you do, is a loss. Only by setting your sights on the path under your feet can you win the life you want.

There is no next life in life. It is enough to live well and understand the present life. Don't compare yourself with others, live well, and live a life that cannot be lived up to.