When a child from a poor family and a child from a privileged family are together, there are two normal outcomes: one is that they both get happiness, the privileged child gets the happiness of respecting others, and the poor child gets the happiness of being respected; Secondly, they all experience sadness. Children from privileged families may feel guilty and condemned for ridiculing others, leading to sadness. Children from poor families may experience emotional trauma and sadness due to being ridiculed by others.

May I ask: When we meet a poor person who begs due to poor family conditions, would you walk up boldly, throw down a stack of money, loudly say, "Beggar, money for you!" and be satisfied with your "kindness", or would you say to him, "Actually, you are great. As long as you work hard, you will definitely improve your family situation." I choose the latter because it can bring infinite positive energy to this poor person.

In fact, poor people need not only material help, but also spiritual respect. If we want to help others, we should first learn to respect and understand others.

Choose what you like, love what you choose. Everyone's attitude towards life is different, and their direction of choice is also different.

When you are full of sadness, melancholy, and even despair, what we need to do is not to complain and blame, nor to be passive and wait, but to have a positive, healthy, and persevering will to find an outlet. Life is real, and everyone will inevitably be tempered by fate. Pessimism and disappointment can only erode our will. Only by welcoming with a smile can we truly feel the essence of life and give it another possibility.

Beethoven once said, "I will hold the throat of fate and never let it make me submit." Lu Xun also said, "A great heart should show such courage - to face tragic fate with a smiling face and to deal with all misfortunes with a hundred times the courage." The greatness of great people lies not only in their confidence, but more importantly, in their courage to challenge fate and turn misfortune into a driving force for progress, stepping on the shoulders of misfortune to step onto the ladder of success.

Life endows us with more than just flowers. Friend, please remember: even if you have a thousand failures, what is your 101st? Give life more positive energy, and you will be greeted by the brilliant morning sun!