Take responsibility for your own life

Column:Selected beautiful articles Time:2023-07-14
In life, the most important thing is to be a good person, to understand self love and self-esteem, and to have an open and fulfilling soul that can withstand the blows of fate and deserve the gifts of fate

In life, the most important thing is to be a good person, to understand self love and self-esteem, and to have an open and fulfilling soul that can withstand the blows of fate and deserve its gifts. If it can be like this, it can be considered as the master of fate.


To be a person, one should be moral, and to do things, one should be efficient. Moral education is to live up to one's conscience, and efficiency is to live up to one's life. There are two realms of doing things: one is the utilitarian realm, where things and related interests are the only purpose, so doing things will inevitably be filled with anxiety and calculation; The other is the realm of morality, where no matter what one does, spiritual gains are considered more important. Doing things is just a means of spiritual cultivation and improvement, and the true purpose is to be a good person. That's why I have a calm attitude and broad demeanor when doing things.


In the long run, the results of doing things will eventually drift away with the wind, but the gains of being a person can last forever. If there is a God, all he sees is how you behave, he won't ask what you have accomplished. In his eyes, anything you have accomplished in this world is too small.


Doing things is being a person. In life, no matter what you do, you should pay attention to the spiritual significance of doing things, improve your spiritual world through doing things, and always walk on your own spiritual journey.


We live in this world and inevitably have to bear various responsibilities, ranging from family, relatives, friends, our own positions, to the country and society. However, we must not forget that besides that, we also have a fundamental responsibility, which is to take responsibility for our own lives.


Everyone has only one chance to live in this world, and no one can replace them to live again. If this only life is wasted, no one can truly comfort him. Realizing this, how can we not develop a strong sense of responsibility towards our own lives? In a sense, all other responsibilities in the world can be shared or transferred, except for the responsibility for one's own life, which can only be fully borne by oneself and cannot rely on others at all.


The sense of responsibility towards one's own life is the root of all other sense of responsibility. Only when a person takes responsibility for their own life, establishes their own true life goals and beliefs, can they consciously choose and take responsibility for others and society. I can't imagine how a person who goes with the flow in life can firmly take responsibility for life.


I believe that if a person can take responsibility for their own life, they will have a responsible attitude towards their actions in all social relationships, including marriage and family. If a society is composed of members who are responsible for their own lives, it must be a high-quality and efficient society.