The vast differences in life are mainly caused by a variety of values. The values of Jesus and Buddha have achieved their divine and Buddhist qualities, while Hitler's values have achieved his devilish qualities. Some people enter politics, some engage in business, some become pastors and mages, and some have become thieves and robbers. This is mainly due to their different values.
The root of conflicts and contradictions between people lies in their different values of life. When people with different values in life are together, there will inevitably be contradictions and conflicts, arguments and struggles, and their relationships will inevitably be disharmonious. Only people with the same values in life can avoid conflicts and contradictions, and their relationships can be harmonious. The so-called resonance between spirit and soul is mainly reflected in their respective shared values of life.
Values are a kind of consciousness, and what kind of consciousness there is, there is a certain way of survival and pursuit of life. Many people rush around their lives but end up achieving nothing, mainly because they have no clear values, or their values are chaotic and uncertain. They have never thought about what is the most important in life, so they are not clear about the priority and urgency of life. They are following the crowd and have been busy all their lives, but they have not come up with a solution.
Life is like a pendulum, constantly swinging, with both low valleys and high peaks, fluctuating. But at a specific time, the position is fixed, and the energy it possesses is also specific. If we bring this into real life, it means that a person's position and the value they exert or embody are also certain. Whatever position they are in, what value they will also exert.
Once all conditions are met, it is possible to maximize the value index; If the conditions are insufficient or missing, the value will be discounted, and even the value may be lost, just like a man of strength can lift a thousand pounds, but he cannot force Mount Taishan to cross the East China Sea. Similarly, for people, position and value correspond.
But unfortunately, some people consider themselves an exception and mistakenly hope to hold onto their position, shine brightly, and enjoy its benefits for a long time, refusing to step down, resulting in the loss of the value that this position should play. In the past, these revered and respected value embodiments have become a roadblock and stumbling block for later generations, causing the wheels of history to roll in place.
The ancient saying goes: If you are not in your position, you will not seek governance. But what I want to say is: if you feel uncomfortable, you can abdicate. Deng Yaping timely abdicated, and a group of young table tennis players such as Wang Nan immediately emerged; Jordan abdicated, and NBA stars rose up. Often, when the leaders in a field step back, they will bring a new batch of fresh blood, forming a situation where a hundred flowers bloom and a hundred schools of thought contend.
Do not be pleased by things, do not be sad by oneself. After many years, what remains in our memories are often beautiful things, both to others and to ourselves. A person who has demonstrated the value of light and heat in their original position will be forever remembered by people. Similarly, a person who cannot leave in a timely manner will also be despised.