You cannot become a person who acts correctly overnight. Life is a lifelong process of self-renewal and self-improvement.

Many people have a very correct attitude towards life, but their correct attitude does not lead to correct actions, because they are "afraid of change". They even equate 'change' with 'destruction'. But the old won't go, and the new won't come. It is indeed quite difficult to give up familiar old things and adapt to unknown new things. Especially since almost all changes take a long time and require trial and error, it is more likely to lead people to remain stagnant and stagnant.

How do ordinary people react to 'change'? For those who are at a turning point in their lives and have benefited greatly from new directions, there is no doubt that they enjoy change. As for others, they refuse any change and stagnate their lives at the current stage. Most people are unwilling to change, but when they have no other choice, they have to make some changes. If we don't seek novelty and change, we will be eliminated by the times! Here are a few essential survival rules that still have a lot of guiding significance for us in the ever-changing modern world:

(1) Put aside the old baggage. If the previous approach no longer works, throw it away quickly! Go to the new world to find your spring. Imagine the benefits of a new life for you: your behavior and skills will improve as a result; You will be more competitive; Interpersonal relationships will also improve.

(2) Maintain an open mind. We don't need to accept everything new, but don't reject something just because it's unique. Don't give new things any value judgments first, try them out before making a decision.

(3) Take action. Instead of thinking, 'This happened to me,' it's better to think, 'This is a great opportunity to try new things.' If the new method doesn't work, try something else. Try all possible methods and you will eventually find a solution.

(4) Be patient. Give new things a chance to warm up and take effect. Research shows that it takes an average of three weeks to break old habits and develop new ones.

(5) Know how to adapt. Don't stick to old ways, but also don't get addicted to new methods that don't work. Continuously practice and then learn from mistakes; Today's failure is often the opportunity for tomorrow's success.

(6) Actively seek assistance. Because you are not familiar with new things, you may not be able to find the information you need in books, so ask people! Even if you can't find the expected answer, you still need to gain new thinking points from it, and perhaps find the solution you need because of it.

(7) Don't give up easily. A momentary stagnation is not a failure, it's just a temporary rest and slowing down. Consider them as the beginning of another stage, not the end.

(8) Emphasize a positive and proactive attitude. If even negative thinking can bring inspiration for self realization, then positive thinking can better fulfill such a function. Understand your strengths, improve your weaknesses, and reward your achievements.

(9) Imagine a vision of success. This can help you break free from old habits of resisting change and have more opportunities to understand the benefits of new things, making them a guiding light on your new path.